What
to make of these
online dating services such as Match.com, POF.com, and others where you
create a profile, answer dozens of questions, taking personality tests,
getting all excited about it, only to discover after a long while, that
finding the right person feels like looking for a needle in a haystack!
One introduction after another leads nowhere with you wondering if
you'll ever meet the person of your dreams. Maybe you have given up,
resigning yourself to staying single without a
fulfilling love life.
In the latter part of June, I signed up with two
dating services, experiencing a deluge of men wanting to meet me (including a lot of scammers). The
timing was right for me to fall in love and get married. I am
fortunate in that I have benefit of Astrology to clue me in as to
exactly what and who to focus on.
You
could say I am advancing my search using astrological information found
in both my NATAL and progressed horoscopes (FUTURE FORECAST). Bottom
line: I'm going to find my one and only guy a LOT faster than some
because my horoscope reflects who I am and what I need to be
romantically, sexually, and maritally happy. Call it "cosmic inside
information" if you will. Here's how to cut through all the chaff when
looking for the proverbial wheat "out there" on these dating services:
· If you are marrying for love (vs. another reason), there has to be two things happening for love and marriage to occur:
1. As Venus is the planet that rules love, there MUST BE at least one
progressed aspect between Venus and another natal or progressed planet
in the horoscope, and also, there must be aspects to the 5th house (area of your life that rules love affairs) by progressed planets to this house and/or its rulers.
2. In order for ANY kind of marriage to occur, there must be progressed planet aspects to the your 7th house of
marriage, and/or its ruling planets; without them, a love affair (ruled by the 5th) will not turn into a marriage. The
energy changes in a love relationship when you tie the knot, for better
or for worse; hence, the difference between the 5th and 7th houses.
Additionally, the sign on the cusp of the 7th house, and its planetary
rulers gives invaluable psychological information about what kind of
mate you'll attract (and want) as a marriage partner.
· To
reiterate, the 5th house rules love affairs and sex while the 7th house
rules marriage partner. The people who are in love relationships for
many years but never marry have no progressed (current) aspects to their 7th house, or one
person in the relationship has an aspect to his/her 7th but the other
person doesn't.
Additionally, the 5th house gives invaluable information about what you
need in a love relationship as well as what kind of sex you and your
partner prefer. If the following planet rules your 5th house of love affairs and sex, this is what you desire:
Sun: An element of pride accompanies the sex act. Perhaps you show off sexually or wish to impress your sexual partner with your vitality.
Moon: You like a variety of sex, depending on your mood at the moment. You might like to be mothered or mother your partner, or if you are a male, you're a "breast man."
Mercury: Your thoughts are centered on sex and communication with your partner as this stimulates you sexually.
Venus: Love-making is desired in a beautiful and romantic manner. Flowers, candy and beautiful material gifts such as jewelry are desired.
Mars: You may be oversexed. Fighting and making up may be your thing.
Jupiter: You may desire an abundance of sex.
Saturn: You may be sexless. You may think sex is a waste of time or too much trouble. You may be selfish, masochistic, impotent, a voyeur, or fearful of the sex act.
Uranus: You may be unconventional with sex. New sexual experiences are desired or attracted. You may be in and out of love affairs, or you are highly independent in response to the sexual act.
Neptune: You may feel you are in a fantasy land with your lover. You may desire being wined and dined with candlelight, music, soft lights, and cuddling other than having sex. If sex does happen, you may be in a state of ecstasy.
Pluto: On the positive side: You are extremely sexy, obsessed with desire. You may be in total rapport with the other person as if there is a psychic bond between the two of you. On the negative side: You may feel the same as on the harmonious side; however, one could be sadistic, cruel, or forceful in the sex act. Bondage or group sex may be your thing.
Sometimes we don't know what we really need to be sexually fulfilled, or if we do know, we may be too ashamed or afraid of telling the other person what we need.
Sun: An element of pride accompanies the sex act. Perhaps you show off sexually or wish to impress your sexual partner with your vitality.
Moon: You like a variety of sex, depending on your mood at the moment. You might like to be mothered or mother your partner, or if you are a male, you're a "breast man."
Mercury: Your thoughts are centered on sex and communication with your partner as this stimulates you sexually.
Venus: Love-making is desired in a beautiful and romantic manner. Flowers, candy and beautiful material gifts such as jewelry are desired.
Mars: You may be oversexed. Fighting and making up may be your thing.
Jupiter: You may desire an abundance of sex.
Saturn: You may be sexless. You may think sex is a waste of time or too much trouble. You may be selfish, masochistic, impotent, a voyeur, or fearful of the sex act.
Uranus: You may be unconventional with sex. New sexual experiences are desired or attracted. You may be in and out of love affairs, or you are highly independent in response to the sexual act.
Neptune: You may feel you are in a fantasy land with your lover. You may desire being wined and dined with candlelight, music, soft lights, and cuddling other than having sex. If sex does happen, you may be in a state of ecstasy.
Pluto: On the positive side: You are extremely sexy, obsessed with desire. You may be in total rapport with the other person as if there is a psychic bond between the two of you. On the negative side: You may feel the same as on the harmonious side; however, one could be sadistic, cruel, or forceful in the sex act. Bondage or group sex may be your thing.
Sometimes we don't know what we really need to be sexually fulfilled, or if we do know, we may be too ashamed or afraid of telling the other person what we need.
If you are already in
love with someone, or married, and your relationship lacks “life,” re-ignite this most precious of relationships with Astrology. Heighten love to a new level. Bring
more fun into the game. Save yourself a lot
of time dating people who cannot give you what you need. KNOW who you are and what you need in depth before you take the time and energy to find someone use dating services.
You'll meet that objective by using my NATAL
HOROSCOPE CHART and FUTURE FORECAST services. If it's the “marriage
made in heaven,” you're looking for, then know that all things worth
having take astrological TIME. "To everything there is a season."
(Bible: Ecclesiastes) Hear me when I say I WANT you to find the perfect mate. When the time is right, you will.
For more information, write to mary@mary-kinlen.com
For more information, write to mary@mary-kinlen.com
Mary Kinlen
